We have all participated in talks where the topic associated with infidelity is being discussed and recently I had such a conversation with a friend who was indicating to me that her hubby was basically making use of her credit card to purchase chats with a company that were specializing in cheap phone sex and the concept he was spending her cash to pay for intimacy was basically what had actually distressed her “I am thankful that these were low cost phone sex discussions” my friend finally said about those phonesex talks he had been savoring behind her back, as though the belief that he at the very least had the good sense to choose chicks who offered their particular erotic adult phone services at a discount was to be commended! I couldn’t help but ask her if the cost of his “behavior ” was the main reason for being annoyed, after all, in the event that my own hubby had been sleaze-bag enjoying sexual one-on-one sexual conversations with other females, I suspect I would have turned out to be raving mad with regards to the whole thing!

“I’ll tell you what” she finally asserted … “Possibly not. I mean in the early stages I suppose I was, After all he was interacting with various other women in order to fill needs that I was supposed to be filling, yet I concluded he wasn’t doing anything drastically wrong.

Sure, he was talking with other people, but these are fantasy lines we are talking about, he was speaking with ladies he didn’t know, would never hook up with in real life and who were only there to play a role in his fantasies.

“If I’m completely honest with you, it didn’t bother me that much! What I mean to say that although I wasn’t really happy about him chatting other women over the phone, I was more upset because he had been using my money to pay for these calls. You may say that what he did was cheating, and I would understand your point of view, but at the end of the day, this is not how I saw that. Were his actions welcome? No. Not really. Were they reprehensible? I don’t feel so. Not more than when you, me and the girls go out on our girls’ only night and you know how wild we get sometimes, even if no one has ever done anything more than flirt! In answer to your question, no I cannot say that I was angry!”

Her reply made me stop and think about it for a while. It had unquestionably taken me by surprise, and I couldn’t help feeling that she might have a point. Let’s be honest, it is assumed that the ladies who answer these types of calls are not like the photographs they put on their website pages thus it could possibly be rationalized that it’s not so much the woman her spouse phoned with whom he was experiencing phonesex with, but rather a fantasy, an actress who was playing a specific role play.

“I have seen my very own partner enjoying adult movie several times” I admitted, “therefore I can appreciate just where you’re coming from! I am not sure I would manage to be so open minded with my very own man. though..”

But before I could carry on, she landed the knockout punch as it were.

“I am telling you. I was furious because of the credit card issue so I let him have it for a while. But when that was done, I realized that was feeling left out, I mean if this man whom I had always enjoyed intimacy with was himself exploring fantasies by phone, shouldn’t I at least see what the bid deal was all about?!”

Ahh… The things the quite ones can do! I was stupefied! To think that this was the same girl who “saved” herself for her husband, who had a first French kiss when she was nearly 18. And this was the sweet, innocent woman who was telling me that was entertaining the idea of a threesome, even if it was to take place by way of mobile love!

“So… What transpired? Did you actually….?” I eventually wanted to know.

“She looked at me with a devilish smile on her pretty face and simply said: ‘YES! And I loved it! you should try it!!”